Attractive, 31 year old, bisexual, fit, caucasian male with a strong passion for music and sex. I love to explore and express different parts of myself through both, and I have found it immensely fulfilling to be able to help others do the same. Be it through a message in my songs or a new sexual experience. Curiosity and exploration into unfamiliar sexual territory has the potential to awaken pieces of ourselves, at our true core of self. Being comfortable with your self and partner(s) enough to allow whatever desires and chemistry take the lead can open up unexpected channels that are both refreshing and euphoric. Being a part of that with another person is extremely rewarding for me, but so is the opportunity to satisfy another's innate desire for pleasure. I guess I believe its true that giving gifts is far greater than receiving them, and at the end of the day, an orgasm is on everyone's wishlist.

My Ideal Person Much more selective with men than I am with women.

Women I'm into any age, 18-80, in a wide variety of features. Long hair is very sexy, but shorter and medium length can be too if done well. Small, medium, big, and gigantic breasts are all good, though the bigger they are the more I want to do with them. Love long sexy legs that lead up to a perfectly round bubble butt. Prefer a woman who like to be more submissive, likes to be spanked and fucked rough and is very vocal.

Only into older men (40+), currently athletic/fit bodies wanted. Not saying you have to have a body fat content of 2% with perfect washboard abs, but presently maintaining above average shape. I definitely prefer muscular/bodybuilder types. Big, veiny, flexed arms; thick, rock hard legs (especially calves); and a hot muscle ass all really get me hot! Hung (8 inches or more), cut cocks are my favorite, but not a requirement. Completely versatile with men, enjoy being top or bottom equally, but flip fucking is my favorite. Can be dominant or sub, depending on the guy.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Xiu Xiu, Inch Nails, Tool, Street Sects, Charli XCX,
James Blake, Frank Ocean, Bon Iver, Sophie

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No specific fantasies

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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